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One of the most difficult things about dating online is figuring out what to say in your online profile. Writing a good profile could be the difference between success and failure in the online dating arena. Through the years, I’ve seen some really great profiles, and some profiles that could use A LOT of work. Here are some tips that will help your profile stand out from the rest:

Post a photo or 2 in your profile/posting. Remember, people like to know what they are getting. A smile is key and your picture should be current! Outdated, poor quality photos give potential dates unrealistic conceptions about who you are. Remember, eventually, you’re hoping to go on a date with some of these people. Don’t you think it’s important your picture is an accurate reflection of what you look like today?

Also of importance is your screen name. Potential dates will look at this before deciding to whether to read any farther. Make this short, catchy and descriptive. Avoid overly suggestive terms, unless you’re on an adult dating site.

Headlines That Grab!

Ok, I didn’t mean that the way it sounds, but you get my drift. Your headline should be something that is catchy without being too corny. Try to include something interesting about yourself in the headline so you’ll attract the attention of people that share the same interests.

The Profile

When writing your online personal ad, remember that you are selling yourself. Emphasize on the positive, but a negative well blended into the ad might work as well, even make your ad stand out (”I may not be the CEO of a Fortune 500 company but…”).

Make your profile more descriptive. It’s all in the details. Instead of vague adjectives (nice, smart, funny, successful, attractive), give specific examples of the things that make you interesting.

A conversation-style writing works best for an online dating profile. Use your imagination. See your ideal woman/man as though they are right there in front of you. Tell her/him why she/he should be with you.

Say what you like to do and what makes you exciting. Get excited! Write without worrying about spelling, grammar or length. At this point you’re trying to get your emotions on paper (or typing document), and stopping to make corrections only interrupts the creative flow.

Describe yourself. Say what makes you unique. What do you bring into a relationship? What are your interests, hobbies, what makes you good company, what do you bring into the relationship? What kind of music do you like? What about movies? Pour your heart out. Give them something that’ll make them remember your ad.

Study other peoples’ personal profiles. If a profile catches your eye attempt to find out what makes it interesting. Model yours on these, don’t copy them word for word. Take your time, use the ideas to shape your own, individual profile.

Be sincere. Don’t exaggerate and above all, remember to BE HONEST!

When you are done writing, take a break. Let your draft personal profile sit for a while (even a day or two). Then come back with a fresh mind and begin editing. Make corrections on spelling and grammar. Cut clutter. All you will have to do now is transfer your profile to the dating sites of your choice.

Good luck out there! See you next time!

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